A Word on the Wars
November 5th 2008 03:28
Not the real ones!
The ones of opinion.
I realized this morning that all argument has become obsolete. There is no point to argument of any kind any more, its all utterly pointless, and I'll tell you why.
There are too many people in the world.
This is what I read in (yesterdays) Daily Telegraph. Yeah, I read it this morning. Whatever. This is the quote that got me -
Obviously we are talking about those little sweethearts who blew away some Australians for their 'views'. Good think they dont give Orblers explosives. But my first reaction was utter blinding rage. I saw red. Their drugs COULD have killed more people? COULD have? But didnt. Ok, so we are basing the validity of that opinion on COULD HAVE.
I thought to myself, how can they publish that? Dont they realize EVERY SINGLE PERSON is going to be just as burned up angry as I am? Bound to take to the streets, form a mob, and burn shit down with flaming torches? How dare they suggest that those kids were anything at all like the bombers, morons, dickheads.....I was shaking my fist in the air.
Then I realized something. It came to me quite clearly, like inner peace, calm and white and insistant.
Not everyone feels the same way as me. Even right here in Sydney, some people who are really vanilla and hate drugs nodded sagely and said, "How true"
Others thought hard about it, weighing the comparison in their minds and wondering how true it could be.
Some would have tittered and shook their head that newspapers have actually become magazines in disguise and have lowered themselves to tabloid level to publish something so obviously inflammatory.
Some people didnt even read it, and went straight to gossip and classifieds.
Some WERE like me. They got upset. I bet they blogged about it. Saying that blowing people up with explosive is absolutely nothing like being young, stupid and niave and thinking you can make a quick buck by strapping some cocaine to your guts. I still standby Shapelle being innocent by the way. I watched that farce they called a trial. How can it be a real trial when people are jeering through open windows? The judge got shitty about Auzzies listening to his every word and ordered the earpiece turned off. That was direct hate towards whities, as far as Im concerned. And the one piece, THE ONE PIECE of solid evidence that came out in the trial was that Shapelle had actually not touched the bag. Her dad got it from the garage and put in in the car, and she only carried it to the terminal. Thats a lot of bloody marijuana to stuff in a bag while you're on the way there. She just doesnt look like a stoner to me.
But back on topic. So, I was all ready to go raise the roof in my indignancy, only to realize that I couldnt argue my point home. There was no way of convincing anyone else out of the way they felt when they read that qoute, and they wouldnt be alone. Instead of person arguing against person, it would be group against group.
So let the baby have his bottle eh? Maybe one day I'll be rich and powerful enough that people give a crap about my opinion. I'll stand up and say my piece and people will say, "That Kleo, she's rich and in the news all the time. Henceforth, she must know whats she's talking about. Im changing my mind" But for now Im just another nutso self confessed white trash whose opinion means nothing to anyone - save myself.
For future refrence, here is Kleo's opinion on the worst topics. If I leave any out, hail to me in the comments section and I will enlighten you.
ABORTION - Sigh. She's a sticky tricky this one. Prepare to hate me. If you are male you have no right to make any ruling on abortion. You are allowed your opinion, but it should not, ever count towards the final decision. Why? As a male, you contribute the least possible amount to the making of the child. It is not your body that gets abused and thrown into a spin for nine months, and you cannot ever even come close to imagining what a woman goes through in pregnancy - even if you are a sensitive SNAG that has lived with a pregnant woman. You have no right to judge a womans decision, ok? Once you are reincarnated as a woman, get all over it, but until you have a womb to fill or empty, you stay the hell out of this topic.
A womans choice is final. It is not a life until it draws breath and squalls on its own and can survive outside the body. Until then it is only potential life. The amount of embryos that are miscarried for seemingly no reason proves this fact utterly, as if all them were lives, surely God himself would see them to term? You can call it selfish if you like, no doubt, sometimes it is, but generally, the choice is hard, based on a lot of factors, the most prominant being that it is not a good situation for a child to be born into. I know 4 girls close to me who have had abortions in their teens, and all are now happily married with babies. There was no way they would halt their studies to become single mums and put their children through the same crap they went thru. They have provided a stable structure with love and money and oppurtunity - the children they fell pregnant with first time around would have been denied all these things.
A sidenote - I once became embroiled in a fierce debate with a woman on another site. She had asked, if you knew your child would be disabled, would you abort? I gave a resounding yes. My reason being, this world is a hard and brutal place. It is difficult to survive. Im healthy and smart and yet I was mercilessly teased every day of my life. I could not - EVER - bring a disadvantaged child into the world. My god. The pain it suffered would outweigh the joy everyday. Another wasted soul. I would abort without thought, and it is my belief that the same soul would incarnate in the next body - THE SAME LIFE would get another chance with healthy tools. That is my honest belief, I dont buy into the 'unborn souls tree' or whatever. That fucker would have pulled out by the roots by now.
However, I have a brain damaged horse. He was caught in the birth canal for about 5 or more minutes. The damage is incredibly slight. If I had been warned prior to his birth I dont think I could have aborted him. And he lives a happy and contented life due to the secure environment I have created for him. But always remember to me, Animals are worth more than humans.
RELIGION - All over Orble I get accused of being anti religion. Anti catholic, anti christian....Just anti religion all over. I have my own issues with the Catholic church as the main governing body is a massive hypocrite that could feed the hungry ten times over and yet doesnt. They are also responsable for the Inquisition where so many of my sisters were killed for the very practises Jesus was trying to teach. However, small Catholic churches in their communities generally do a lot of good, and I admire the ritual and the beauty of the religion itself - even though those are merely echoes of the worship of the sacred mother. I attack christians because I have yet to see one that is not a hypocrite - Not one of them can answer the question "What Would Jesus Do?" and too many sound like that horrific Phelps woman - "God is the Avenger, lets all get angry and kill each other, cos its what he asked us to do...." Hmm. If you are christian, you dont judge. You know Gods the only one who can.
From my blog name its obvious I admire Hindu religion. I am not religious, more superstitious. I have an altar, where I pray and make offerings, I cast spells, I meditate and focus my energy, but I do not follow any particular creed. I actually think you are a bit mad if you do, because you absolutely have to find your own way spiritually.
But, if you lack confidence and direction and you find a belief system or religion to comfort you, I respect that. None can belittle the path by which another finds God. They are all the Creator.
THE BIBLE - It is a historical source like Tacitus or Seutonius. Learn about history, learn about how words are twisted and warped by those who record them. Read the Bible with a pinch of salt, its not literal, try to imagine who wrote it, SEE them, the writing materials used, the clothes they wore. Understand how primitive their minds are compared to ours and always think - "Thats the impression the writer wanted me to have. But what actually happened?" Research the times, fit the pieces together, THINK FOR YOURSELF. It is much more satisfying that way.
HOMOSEXUALITY - Im bisexual. I adore women, I even love objectifying them into their parts like guys do. It turns me on. My brothers gay and lives on Oxford street and has had flaming queens as boy(?)friends. Fear of those who enjoy physical contact with the same sex generally means you feel the potential within yourself. Ive got news for you - every creature in creation is bisexual. Our sexual parts are filled with nerve endings that get off no matter who it is, and we train our brains and minds to like certain things. Im a believer in a chemical imbalance as I have more testosterone than most men. But we're still waiting for them to complete that study. So far, the furthest theyve gotten is identifying that straight men and lesbians have very similar brain wave activity, as do gay men and straight women. Makes sense to me, but where does that leave us poor fence sitters?
FEMINISIM - This ones gotten me into trouble a lot. To be honest Im confused about the issue. I was raised by a woman who told me I could do anything, I was better than a man, forget equal. And she did it all clutching pictures of her most loved Greer. Mum worked as a lawn mower, has always fixed her own plumbing and other hardware based jobs. She can knock up an avery while the men are still going over the raw materials with a beer. But, this woman also taught me to take care of my skin,(cos men like that) always wear a bra even at night (cos men like perky breasts) dont swear (cos men find it unattractive) and when I told her I was going everywhere barefoot to toughen my feet she told me men dont like hard skinned feet on a girl.
So I ws left thinking....Im supposed to be better than a man, better at everything, yet at the same time Ive got to debase myself with cold cream and foot files just to attract one? Im telling you now, it just doesnt work. My hands are harder than Kmans, with twice as many callouses. Im tougher, he has no pain threshold. Ive called him a blouse wearing pansy on many occasions. High falootin city boy got a good work out when we first moved to property. If hes playing on the computer and Im fencing, he usually cops lazy poodle walker. Or soft as your pussy cats paws! Thats when he brings out the 6 ft frame with shoulders to match and proves he's a man. In between splinters of course. The amount of times he says "Ow! Doesnt that hurt?" only to have me say, "What? Oh, yeah, Im bleeding, big deal"
You know his final answer? He's a model maker and tool builder. His hands are sensitive and delicate instruments and he's worked hard to keep them that way. He's actually right. But when im out swinging the axe and he's washing the dishes, I think somethings very wrong with that. Call me old fashioned. But thats where I stand. Im not a feminist, Im a glamazon.....And I think its a bit hard to campaign for womens rights when Im the one waving a tenner and screaming "Take it off!"
VEGETARIANISIM AND ANIMAL RIGHTS - I love animals, as you all know. Why arent I vegetarian then? I actually eat very little meat. I cook stir frys heavy on the veg and low on the chicken. Perhaps once a week we eat a purely meat based sauce. Kman may eat three steaks a week, but I cant stomach cuts like that. I primarily eat rice and noodles and veggies with a bit of fish or chicken on the side. I need the protien, I need the energy, and there is no more efficient way of getting it. Humans are SUPPOSED to eat meat, but not as much of it as we glutton ourselves on at the moment. It has spiralled out of control, Im all with that. Bottom line is, I was going to become a vegetarian when I thought about how much I love my plants - my herbs, my veggies, my bulbs and gardenia and ferns. They live and die and their lives are as important to me as an animals. No matter what, to survive myself, something has to die. The important thing is to limit it as much as possible, and once I have my own property I will kill my own meat so I KNOW its had a good life, it was killed without pain, and not subjected to the horror of a supermarket freezer....Which has been known to make me gag. All those animals laying there so we can choose our cut...Its disgusting.
As for animal rights, those bastards burn me right up. Boycotting wool because of crutching. For Jesus' sake - crutching is necessary. When you keep a large amount of animals together, you have to be cruel to be kind. Discomfort is far preferable to real crippling pain, disease or death. All the things people consider 'inhumane' are procedures that have been honed over hundreds of years, and all have a good reason. You think the farmer enjoys crutching time? gets out there with his knife laughing gleefully? No man, it stinks up a sheeps ass. He's got a couple hundred to dock and crutch and its a bastard of a job, but do it now and there will be no flystrike later on. It is humane to snip off the offending tails and crutch skin quickly with a sharp knife - its not humane to attach elastic bands and watch the poor bastards suffer for weeks while you wait for it to drop off! All animal rights activists have done is invent more pain for animals. Im all for animal rights, believe me. But there is only one solution - to stop mass killing, to prevent poaching, to stop all the procedures that result from our use of the animals bodies, we need to reduce the worlds population by half. Then the animals can have their rights back. Im all for this principle. I will get out there and hunt down all those kids that should have been aborted and take them out first so an animal can have their life. No Drama.
Kleos opinion. True and undiluted.
The ones of opinion.
I realized this morning that all argument has become obsolete. There is no point to argument of any kind any more, its all utterly pointless, and I'll tell you why.
There are too many people in the world.
This is what I read in (yesterdays) Daily Telegraph. Yeah, I read it this morning. Whatever. This is the quote that got me -
"The denial came as the brother of bomber Imam Samudra claimed the terrorist killers were being discriminated against and that the three Australian Bali Nine heroin smuggles on death row should be executed first because their drugs could have killed more people."
Obviously we are talking about those little sweethearts who blew away some Australians for their 'views'. Good think they dont give Orblers explosives. But my first reaction was utter blinding rage. I saw red. Their drugs COULD have killed more people? COULD have? But didnt. Ok, so we are basing the validity of that opinion on COULD HAVE.
I thought to myself, how can they publish that? Dont they realize EVERY SINGLE PERSON is going to be just as burned up angry as I am? Bound to take to the streets, form a mob, and burn shit down with flaming torches? How dare they suggest that those kids were anything at all like the bombers, morons, dickheads.....I was shaking my fist in the air.
Then I realized something. It came to me quite clearly, like inner peace, calm and white and insistant.
Not everyone feels the same way as me. Even right here in Sydney, some people who are really vanilla and hate drugs nodded sagely and said, "How true"
Others thought hard about it, weighing the comparison in their minds and wondering how true it could be.
Some would have tittered and shook their head that newspapers have actually become magazines in disguise and have lowered themselves to tabloid level to publish something so obviously inflammatory.
Some people didnt even read it, and went straight to gossip and classifieds.
Some WERE like me. They got upset. I bet they blogged about it. Saying that blowing people up with explosive is absolutely nothing like being young, stupid and niave and thinking you can make a quick buck by strapping some cocaine to your guts. I still standby Shapelle being innocent by the way. I watched that farce they called a trial. How can it be a real trial when people are jeering through open windows? The judge got shitty about Auzzies listening to his every word and ordered the earpiece turned off. That was direct hate towards whities, as far as Im concerned. And the one piece, THE ONE PIECE of solid evidence that came out in the trial was that Shapelle had actually not touched the bag. Her dad got it from the garage and put in in the car, and she only carried it to the terminal. Thats a lot of bloody marijuana to stuff in a bag while you're on the way there. She just doesnt look like a stoner to me.
But back on topic. So, I was all ready to go raise the roof in my indignancy, only to realize that I couldnt argue my point home. There was no way of convincing anyone else out of the way they felt when they read that qoute, and they wouldnt be alone. Instead of person arguing against person, it would be group against group.
So let the baby have his bottle eh? Maybe one day I'll be rich and powerful enough that people give a crap about my opinion. I'll stand up and say my piece and people will say, "That Kleo, she's rich and in the news all the time. Henceforth, she must know whats she's talking about. Im changing my mind" But for now Im just another nutso self confessed white trash whose opinion means nothing to anyone - save myself.
For future refrence, here is Kleo's opinion on the worst topics. If I leave any out, hail to me in the comments section and I will enlighten you.
ABORTION - Sigh. She's a sticky tricky this one. Prepare to hate me. If you are male you have no right to make any ruling on abortion. You are allowed your opinion, but it should not, ever count towards the final decision. Why? As a male, you contribute the least possible amount to the making of the child. It is not your body that gets abused and thrown into a spin for nine months, and you cannot ever even come close to imagining what a woman goes through in pregnancy - even if you are a sensitive SNAG that has lived with a pregnant woman. You have no right to judge a womans decision, ok? Once you are reincarnated as a woman, get all over it, but until you have a womb to fill or empty, you stay the hell out of this topic.
A womans choice is final. It is not a life until it draws breath and squalls on its own and can survive outside the body. Until then it is only potential life. The amount of embryos that are miscarried for seemingly no reason proves this fact utterly, as if all them were lives, surely God himself would see them to term? You can call it selfish if you like, no doubt, sometimes it is, but generally, the choice is hard, based on a lot of factors, the most prominant being that it is not a good situation for a child to be born into. I know 4 girls close to me who have had abortions in their teens, and all are now happily married with babies. There was no way they would halt their studies to become single mums and put their children through the same crap they went thru. They have provided a stable structure with love and money and oppurtunity - the children they fell pregnant with first time around would have been denied all these things.
A sidenote - I once became embroiled in a fierce debate with a woman on another site. She had asked, if you knew your child would be disabled, would you abort? I gave a resounding yes. My reason being, this world is a hard and brutal place. It is difficult to survive. Im healthy and smart and yet I was mercilessly teased every day of my life. I could not - EVER - bring a disadvantaged child into the world. My god. The pain it suffered would outweigh the joy everyday. Another wasted soul. I would abort without thought, and it is my belief that the same soul would incarnate in the next body - THE SAME LIFE would get another chance with healthy tools. That is my honest belief, I dont buy into the 'unborn souls tree' or whatever. That fucker would have pulled out by the roots by now.
However, I have a brain damaged horse. He was caught in the birth canal for about 5 or more minutes. The damage is incredibly slight. If I had been warned prior to his birth I dont think I could have aborted him. And he lives a happy and contented life due to the secure environment I have created for him. But always remember to me, Animals are worth more than humans.
RELIGION - All over Orble I get accused of being anti religion. Anti catholic, anti christian....Just anti religion all over. I have my own issues with the Catholic church as the main governing body is a massive hypocrite that could feed the hungry ten times over and yet doesnt. They are also responsable for the Inquisition where so many of my sisters were killed for the very practises Jesus was trying to teach. However, small Catholic churches in their communities generally do a lot of good, and I admire the ritual and the beauty of the religion itself - even though those are merely echoes of the worship of the sacred mother. I attack christians because I have yet to see one that is not a hypocrite - Not one of them can answer the question "What Would Jesus Do?" and too many sound like that horrific Phelps woman - "God is the Avenger, lets all get angry and kill each other, cos its what he asked us to do...." Hmm. If you are christian, you dont judge. You know Gods the only one who can.
From my blog name its obvious I admire Hindu religion. I am not religious, more superstitious. I have an altar, where I pray and make offerings, I cast spells, I meditate and focus my energy, but I do not follow any particular creed. I actually think you are a bit mad if you do, because you absolutely have to find your own way spiritually.
But, if you lack confidence and direction and you find a belief system or religion to comfort you, I respect that. None can belittle the path by which another finds God. They are all the Creator.
THE BIBLE - It is a historical source like Tacitus or Seutonius. Learn about history, learn about how words are twisted and warped by those who record them. Read the Bible with a pinch of salt, its not literal, try to imagine who wrote it, SEE them, the writing materials used, the clothes they wore. Understand how primitive their minds are compared to ours and always think - "Thats the impression the writer wanted me to have. But what actually happened?" Research the times, fit the pieces together, THINK FOR YOURSELF. It is much more satisfying that way.
HOMOSEXUALITY - Im bisexual. I adore women, I even love objectifying them into their parts like guys do. It turns me on. My brothers gay and lives on Oxford street and has had flaming queens as boy(?)friends. Fear of those who enjoy physical contact with the same sex generally means you feel the potential within yourself. Ive got news for you - every creature in creation is bisexual. Our sexual parts are filled with nerve endings that get off no matter who it is, and we train our brains and minds to like certain things. Im a believer in a chemical imbalance as I have more testosterone than most men. But we're still waiting for them to complete that study. So far, the furthest theyve gotten is identifying that straight men and lesbians have very similar brain wave activity, as do gay men and straight women. Makes sense to me, but where does that leave us poor fence sitters?
FEMINISIM - This ones gotten me into trouble a lot. To be honest Im confused about the issue. I was raised by a woman who told me I could do anything, I was better than a man, forget equal. And she did it all clutching pictures of her most loved Greer. Mum worked as a lawn mower, has always fixed her own plumbing and other hardware based jobs. She can knock up an avery while the men are still going over the raw materials with a beer. But, this woman also taught me to take care of my skin,(cos men like that) always wear a bra even at night (cos men like perky breasts) dont swear (cos men find it unattractive) and when I told her I was going everywhere barefoot to toughen my feet she told me men dont like hard skinned feet on a girl.
So I ws left thinking....Im supposed to be better than a man, better at everything, yet at the same time Ive got to debase myself with cold cream and foot files just to attract one? Im telling you now, it just doesnt work. My hands are harder than Kmans, with twice as many callouses. Im tougher, he has no pain threshold. Ive called him a blouse wearing pansy on many occasions. High falootin city boy got a good work out when we first moved to property. If hes playing on the computer and Im fencing, he usually cops lazy poodle walker. Or soft as your pussy cats paws! Thats when he brings out the 6 ft frame with shoulders to match and proves he's a man. In between splinters of course. The amount of times he says "Ow! Doesnt that hurt?" only to have me say, "What? Oh, yeah, Im bleeding, big deal"
You know his final answer? He's a model maker and tool builder. His hands are sensitive and delicate instruments and he's worked hard to keep them that way. He's actually right. But when im out swinging the axe and he's washing the dishes, I think somethings very wrong with that. Call me old fashioned. But thats where I stand. Im not a feminist, Im a glamazon.....And I think its a bit hard to campaign for womens rights when Im the one waving a tenner and screaming "Take it off!"
VEGETARIANISIM AND ANIMAL RIGHTS - I love animals, as you all know. Why arent I vegetarian then? I actually eat very little meat. I cook stir frys heavy on the veg and low on the chicken. Perhaps once a week we eat a purely meat based sauce. Kman may eat three steaks a week, but I cant stomach cuts like that. I primarily eat rice and noodles and veggies with a bit of fish or chicken on the side. I need the protien, I need the energy, and there is no more efficient way of getting it. Humans are SUPPOSED to eat meat, but not as much of it as we glutton ourselves on at the moment. It has spiralled out of control, Im all with that. Bottom line is, I was going to become a vegetarian when I thought about how much I love my plants - my herbs, my veggies, my bulbs and gardenia and ferns. They live and die and their lives are as important to me as an animals. No matter what, to survive myself, something has to die. The important thing is to limit it as much as possible, and once I have my own property I will kill my own meat so I KNOW its had a good life, it was killed without pain, and not subjected to the horror of a supermarket freezer....Which has been known to make me gag. All those animals laying there so we can choose our cut...Its disgusting.
As for animal rights, those bastards burn me right up. Boycotting wool because of crutching. For Jesus' sake - crutching is necessary. When you keep a large amount of animals together, you have to be cruel to be kind. Discomfort is far preferable to real crippling pain, disease or death. All the things people consider 'inhumane' are procedures that have been honed over hundreds of years, and all have a good reason. You think the farmer enjoys crutching time? gets out there with his knife laughing gleefully? No man, it stinks up a sheeps ass. He's got a couple hundred to dock and crutch and its a bastard of a job, but do it now and there will be no flystrike later on. It is humane to snip off the offending tails and crutch skin quickly with a sharp knife - its not humane to attach elastic bands and watch the poor bastards suffer for weeks while you wait for it to drop off! All animal rights activists have done is invent more pain for animals. Im all for animal rights, believe me. But there is only one solution - to stop mass killing, to prevent poaching, to stop all the procedures that result from our use of the animals bodies, we need to reduce the worlds population by half. Then the animals can have their rights back. Im all for this principle. I will get out there and hunt down all those kids that should have been aborted and take them out first so an animal can have their life. No Drama.
Kleos opinion. True and undiluted.
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Comment by Lady Henrietta Muddling
Potter in a Harry
No argument from me on that one.
Only politics. But there'll be a glut of posts on politics, it hardly seems worth it.
Comment by Kleonaptra
Kalikapsychosis
I cant believe I made a damo type typo. Shit.
And politics? I dont understand it. Lack of understanding leads to fear. Fear leads to hate. Hate leads to the dark side. So thats how I got here.
Comment by Johnny Come Lately
Jack's Back
Comment by Kleonaptra
Kalikapsychosis
Comment by Morgan Bell
Deep Pencil
Business News
Movie Train
that was really comprehensive and brave!
kudos to you!
youre an IVF baby right?
gee i wonder if i know him? haha
i do like my nancy boys, and i do admire my dragqueens . . . try walking a mile in their shoes, i did once and i had very sore legs!
ive got an aunt who said something very similar to me once, actually i find quite alot of women think like that . . . and one of my gay housemates (male) used to always say men should have no opinions because its a womens issue . . . i dont mind hearing an opinion if it is offered with a degree of sensitivity but unfortunately that doesnt really happen that often
Comment by Kleonaptra
Kalikapsychosis
Yep, Im an IVF baby. I think my IVF post is still in my recent list.
Men can have all the opinions they want, but in the first three months, in my opinion, they dont get a say. But Im talking about young and dumb situations - if I fell pregnant right now Kman would get a say right now, because we could be in a situation to support it.
My brother looks straight, you wouldnt really know he was gay.
Comment by Morgan Bell
Deep Pencil
Business News
Movie Train
yeah well a husband weighing in on a pregnancy where he is the father is more understandable than a bunch of stuffy old dudes deciding the law for women they have never met!
a straight-acting gay . . . you usually only know when you see another fella on their arm or see them singing kareoke at the gay bar! haha
il go check on your IVF post . . .
Comment by Kleonaptra
Kalikapsychosis
Well, my brother is very clean and well dressed with manicured nails....So there are always signs!
In my experience, as Ive written here, women choose the abortion option when they are very young and frightened. They know the partner wont stick around, or if he would, that they wouldnt be happy together. It means a complete life change before even being 20 years old, and if you arent ready for whatever reason, you cannot raise that child. The mother will always blame it or even if they dont, the kid ends up blaming the mother! Fear of death is getting less and less and Im not the only one to say I would have rather tried again than lived this particular life and body.
One of my girl friends was so upset when she had to have it - She was in tears for days, patting her belly and saying "You came too early for me bubba, way too early" And she knew the father was way too immature for the job whether he stuck around or not. When she fell pregnant a few years ago, I expected her to abort again because she's very focused and career driven, and it really surprised me when she said no, Im having it - this is a good man this time, and she swore she would never have another abortion. She utterly believed that this was the same soul, the same life, returned to her. She now has two daughters and still plans to go back to her career in a few years.