What would you do?
April 26th 2007 06:07
What would you do, if you kept finding earrings that did not belong to you? I was going to just give you a quick overview, but if I truly want your opinions and judgements on the situation Im going to have to do better than that. You're going to need a little background.
How I met my man.
It was a Wed evening when my mate rang me to invite me to the local club on fri night. Id just finished up my round of mind games with 'boyA' (from Inner Caverns) and settled into the chat - Best Mate and her boyf wanted to get a cabin for the holidays but they needed two more people. Enter her boyfriends best friend - and me! We could be a perfect match she said - lets all four get together on Fri night and see how it goes. Ok, I agreed.
Thurs night I spent with boyA. Fri evening we had brief introductions and I met T. We were only at the club a brief time before T and I rushed home to consummate our brand new relationship. Oh, what a love affair it was. I had told boyA, look, Im going out with a very nice guy, if you cant get your act together, Im staying with him, to which boyA had no real answer. Sun morning the phone rang and T rolled over and answered it, "yeah, hold on" and gave it to me. It was boyA! Oh, the joy! "Who was that?" he snapped. "Do you really care?" I said in my silkiest voice, reminding him of our previous conversation. "Nah! Im chargin!" And hung up leaving me to enjoy T's attentions.
Sun night we parted regretfully, as I was going to stay with some friends at TAFE from Mon onwards. He promised he would come and see me there. Bittersweet parting!
On Mon I find out via phone tag that T is a heroin addict that just got kicked outta home. Bye Bye T!
So the party kicks on, as they do on universities, and by Tue night it was in full swing. About 20 people ranged about drinking and up to no good. Im having a ball when boyA rings.
"WTF do you want." Im bored. Couldnt be less interested in him bearing his heart. This is my favourite part of the game - when Ive got him. All night Id been watching the antics of Ra, A vampire wannabe with all the trimmings - long black cape, waist length hair and long fingernails. While boyA is urgently saying "Look, Im finally saying it, what you want to hear....I love you..." Ra sticks his head through the door, and says with a devilish grin "Do you want to go to the graveyard?" "Why, yes, Yes I do" I answer, hanging up unceremoniously on boyA. That was a funky adventure! Im not going into the details cos Id probably get arrested, but suffice to say, the Vampire was mine.
Wed afternoon. Im trying to recover in the lounge, when JazAngel appears, telling me about this boy whose coming, just for me. "Boys?" Im bored "Ive had enough of boys"
Then he walks in. My god, this isnt just a boy, its a MAN, a great tall one with pale skin and dark eyes and quick hands and a melting smile. In all of five seconds we're debating the finer points of Roman History, immersed in an argument nobody around us has any hope of understanding.
And about 5 mins after that....He leads me out behind a shed, under a gum tree, where the full moon smiles on me as Ive truly found my consort....Finally....And In the exact same place I was destroyed I become healed....I never knew a mans arms could be so strong, so comforting.
I go to TAFE the next day and already something strange is happening. I....MISS? Him? He had to leave in a hurry so screw it I chase after him, ending up at his house that night even though I had no idea where it was, and the way our faces lit up to see each other again was just incredible. All our friends noticed...."You two are in LOVE" "No we're not, its not like that. We just like each other."
3 months we hung on to being players until the jealousy became too much and we went exclusive. It was bliss - for the first time I was secure in the knowledge that someone was THERE FOR ME.....
I never trusted him away from me, and he still doesnt trust me.
I found the first earring in the end of 2004. I questioned him at length, because I didnt live at home full time. He got so confused and defensive I just left it....We had a ditzy friend who dropped by often, she could easily have lost it.
Last week I saw Najara smacking an earring. I thought it was mine. A few days ago I found her with it again and took it off her. Its not mine. Its not the same as the last one I found. I presented it to Kman and asked very politely for an explanation.
He fixed his eyes to the computer screen while he tried to hide his grin. He protested, "I dont know - I pick up weird things(he does) - perhaps its my sisters - I really dont know -"
THEN LOOK ME IN THE EYES DAMN YOU!!!
His sister hasnt seen us or him in about a year. He refused to look me in the eye all afternoon and seemed to go red and white at the same time and grinning but trying not to grin. It was scary. He came up to me, triumphant, believing he had solved the puzzle, to look me in the eye and announce - "As if I could bring a girl here anyway" I very calmly agreed - Of course you dont have to bring her here for her earring to end up here. They do that. They slip off at the oddest times and attach to clothes and end up in all sorts of places. He mumbled and shuffled and refused to meet my eyes again.
What could possibly be his motivation? What could he be getting out of it - paying for me, coming home to me, yet wasting time on someone else?
I know the male animal. I know it doesnt need rhyme or reason - Only the desire to reproduce. To screw.
I know so little about him really. I dont recognise half the things on his credit card bill. I just know that in my opinion, hes too lazy to have two women.
So, whats the word? Is my wolf strayin? Cos She Wolf has a book of suitors all ready to go and be tried out, and another female to rip to shreds if its at all true....
And I'll make damn sure Kmans never the same again...
How I met my man.
It was a Wed evening when my mate rang me to invite me to the local club on fri night. Id just finished up my round of mind games with 'boyA' (from Inner Caverns) and settled into the chat - Best Mate and her boyf wanted to get a cabin for the holidays but they needed two more people. Enter her boyfriends best friend - and me! We could be a perfect match she said - lets all four get together on Fri night and see how it goes. Ok, I agreed.
Thurs night I spent with boyA. Fri evening we had brief introductions and I met T. We were only at the club a brief time before T and I rushed home to consummate our brand new relationship. Oh, what a love affair it was. I had told boyA, look, Im going out with a very nice guy, if you cant get your act together, Im staying with him, to which boyA had no real answer. Sun morning the phone rang and T rolled over and answered it, "yeah, hold on" and gave it to me. It was boyA! Oh, the joy! "Who was that?" he snapped. "Do you really care?" I said in my silkiest voice, reminding him of our previous conversation. "Nah! Im chargin!" And hung up leaving me to enjoy T's attentions.
Sun night we parted regretfully, as I was going to stay with some friends at TAFE from Mon onwards. He promised he would come and see me there. Bittersweet parting!
On Mon I find out via phone tag that T is a heroin addict that just got kicked outta home. Bye Bye T!
So the party kicks on, as they do on universities, and by Tue night it was in full swing. About 20 people ranged about drinking and up to no good. Im having a ball when boyA rings.
"WTF do you want." Im bored. Couldnt be less interested in him bearing his heart. This is my favourite part of the game - when Ive got him. All night Id been watching the antics of Ra, A vampire wannabe with all the trimmings - long black cape, waist length hair and long fingernails. While boyA is urgently saying "Look, Im finally saying it, what you want to hear....I love you..." Ra sticks his head through the door, and says with a devilish grin "Do you want to go to the graveyard?" "Why, yes, Yes I do" I answer, hanging up unceremoniously on boyA. That was a funky adventure! Im not going into the details cos Id probably get arrested, but suffice to say, the Vampire was mine.
Wed afternoon. Im trying to recover in the lounge, when JazAngel appears, telling me about this boy whose coming, just for me. "Boys?" Im bored "Ive had enough of boys"
Then he walks in. My god, this isnt just a boy, its a MAN, a great tall one with pale skin and dark eyes and quick hands and a melting smile. In all of five seconds we're debating the finer points of Roman History, immersed in an argument nobody around us has any hope of understanding.
And about 5 mins after that....He leads me out behind a shed, under a gum tree, where the full moon smiles on me as Ive truly found my consort....Finally....And In the exact same place I was destroyed I become healed....I never knew a mans arms could be so strong, so comforting.
I go to TAFE the next day and already something strange is happening. I....MISS? Him? He had to leave in a hurry so screw it I chase after him, ending up at his house that night even though I had no idea where it was, and the way our faces lit up to see each other again was just incredible. All our friends noticed...."You two are in LOVE" "No we're not, its not like that. We just like each other."
3 months we hung on to being players until the jealousy became too much and we went exclusive. It was bliss - for the first time I was secure in the knowledge that someone was THERE FOR ME.....
I never trusted him away from me, and he still doesnt trust me.
I found the first earring in the end of 2004. I questioned him at length, because I didnt live at home full time. He got so confused and defensive I just left it....We had a ditzy friend who dropped by often, she could easily have lost it.
Last week I saw Najara smacking an earring. I thought it was mine. A few days ago I found her with it again and took it off her. Its not mine. Its not the same as the last one I found. I presented it to Kman and asked very politely for an explanation.
He fixed his eyes to the computer screen while he tried to hide his grin. He protested, "I dont know - I pick up weird things(he does) - perhaps its my sisters - I really dont know -"
THEN LOOK ME IN THE EYES DAMN YOU!!!
His sister hasnt seen us or him in about a year. He refused to look me in the eye all afternoon and seemed to go red and white at the same time and grinning but trying not to grin. It was scary. He came up to me, triumphant, believing he had solved the puzzle, to look me in the eye and announce - "As if I could bring a girl here anyway" I very calmly agreed - Of course you dont have to bring her here for her earring to end up here. They do that. They slip off at the oddest times and attach to clothes and end up in all sorts of places. He mumbled and shuffled and refused to meet my eyes again.
What could possibly be his motivation? What could he be getting out of it - paying for me, coming home to me, yet wasting time on someone else?
I know the male animal. I know it doesnt need rhyme or reason - Only the desire to reproduce. To screw.
I know so little about him really. I dont recognise half the things on his credit card bill. I just know that in my opinion, hes too lazy to have two women.
So, whats the word? Is my wolf strayin? Cos She Wolf has a book of suitors all ready to go and be tried out, and another female to rip to shreds if its at all true....
And I'll make damn sure Kmans never the same again...
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Comment by MelissaA
Fun Facts
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Comment by Lily
Ars Poetica
~Lily
Comment by MelissaA
Fun Facts
Comment by Miss Nomer
C. an AVO being taken out against me D. lonliness....
Follow your heart........... X
Comment by katyzzz
Photography Tips
MS Paint Art
I'm afraid I'm out of my depths on this one.
katyzzz
Comment by katyzzz
Photography Tips
MS Paint Art
Might these earrings be for your birthday, and is the scenario you fear likely with the transfer to a new home pending?
katyzzz.......Happy Birthday!
Comment by Ash
Flashes of memories
I really do hope that it turns out to be nothing... but as lily says... eyes have a lot to say... hopefully it is just something to do with your birthday..... ooooh trust is a biggie huh girl?! You know Kman and how to read him... it is mums maybe?
ash
Comment by Kleonaptra
Kalikapsychosis
Last night I asked him to look me in the eye and tell me the truth. God, he has such beautiful eyes! Before I met him I thought brown eyes were so boring - none of the characters in my books ever had brown eyes - and he grabs my shoulders and looks me in the eye and swears he doesnt know where it came from. I cant possibly disbelieve those eyes, so deep, so intricate, gold and black spell pools. Whenever we think it isnt going to work we just stand next to each other and breathe and something clicks and we wonder how we ever thought it wouldnt work! We broke up once - lasted about a day!
Im telling you all - if he's lying, if hes that good, then Im in for it. I think hes worth the risk. Whatever, I cant say no to him!
Comment by KylieW
Celebrity Obsession
Sorry, I can't really offer a great deal of help on this one. Except to say....what does your gut say? Do you really believe he's cheating? You know him a lot better than anyone else. They say a woman should always listen to her intuition. My gut is rarely ever wrong, so I've learnt to trust it.
The not making eye contact would worry me. But if he then turned round and told you last night that he didn't know where it came from and looked you in the eye.......well that just confuses things.
My advice. I would observe and pay attention. It sounds suspicious......but then it could honestly be nothing.
Of course, take any advice from me with a grain of salt. I'm a total spaz when it comes to relationships!
Good luck
Kylie
Comment by Kleonaptra
Kalikapsychosis